tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post112547073306774990..comments2023-04-11T08:26:38.711-07:00Comments on Candice, the Venus Willendorf, and Everything: More Border Collie Cross StitchAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02576242732542242561noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post-1134554069803414892005-12-14T01:54:00.000-08:002005-12-14T01:54:00.000-08:00ton border collie est magnifique - ma maman est un...ton border collie est magnifique - ma maman est une fan de colley - elle en a 3 dans sa maison - desolée mon anglais est trop scolaire- claudine sud de la franceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post-1128427315340472342005-10-04T05:01:00.000-07:002005-10-04T05:01:00.000-07:00Hi Candice,I belong to a Yahoo group for freebie p...Hi Candice,<BR/><BR/>I belong to a Yahoo group for freebie patterns and there was a link in the latest post about a Yahoo group for stitchers to help stitchers who were affected bu the hurricanes.<BR/>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Katrinas_stitchers/<BR/><BR/>"Description<BR/>We are attempting to coordinate those stitchers who have been affected by hurricanes Katrina and Rita with those who are wanting to help fellow stitchers in need."Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10891955451425764506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post-1127546479799232532005-09-24T00:21:00.000-07:002005-09-24T00:21:00.000-07:00Candice said. . .I think I misinterpreted the rela...Candice said. . .I think I misinterpreted the relationships. I thought we were closer than we were. I thought they enjoyed talking to me. I certainly enjoyed talking to them. But I seem to have been too intense. They felt that I was demanding more from them than they could give.<BR/><BR/>In my experience, it is not uncommon to be more intense in a relationship than the other person can handle. Sometimes, for example, a person with a bad mother tries to have general conversation while trying to turn the listener into a substitute mother. The listener, perhaps feeling all this is too much, withdraws.<BR/><BR/>However, it seems that some people withdraw more abruptly online, as though the internet somehow demands a lower level of civility.<BR/><BR/>People who are sometimes perceived as "needy" need to be careful not to overestimate a listener's friendship. People who are uncomfortable with "needy" people need to be careful not to drop them so hard that it hurts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post-1125698172283420832005-09-02T14:56:00.000-07:002005-09-02T14:56:00.000-07:00I have a harder time with kids. Small kids take T...I have a harder time with kids. Small kids take TOO much of my energy. I start to feel free when they become teenagers, when they become less demanding. With small kids, I was always struggling to find space for myself.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02576242732542242561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7648131.post-1125660207965473202005-09-02T04:23:00.000-07:002005-09-02T04:23:00.000-07:00They take me out of myself and force me to pay att...<I>They take me out of myself and force me to pay attention to and take care of another life. </I><BR/><BR/>I thought kids were supposed to do that? ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com